How are these children going to feel when they find out how they were stolen from their fathers ? – And I still love the Baby’s Mother, But I am pretty mad at her!
January 14th, 2008
As both a victim/father and also an advocate the personal story gets lost. I don’t know how many times I’ve read the name of the Fraud Practicing Attorney’s or their Adoption Services and not the names of the Children as if they are not even Human beings. Remember Cody’s daughter is going to grow up some day and find out about thefraud scheme executed to “sell” her so will my daughter? I ask you how would you feel if the adoption industry abducted you and took you away from your natural parents and biological family as if you vanished? I remind people that her name is Teresa and I will not rest until this situation is made right!I think Every child has the right to know where they came from and that anyone in the immediate family, aunts, uncles has the right to know the child because that is the natural way that people are! I think Utah and the adoption industry needs to open Adoptions unless everyone in the immediate family is proven extremely unfit or willingly rejects the child. Adoptions agencies should not be arranging adoptions against the will of one of the parents or move the child from state to state in order to defraud one of the parents intentionally. This behavior is immoral, unethical and it should be illegal, constituting fraud and abduction.
Teresa has a two grandfathers one living grandmother and a several aunts, an uncle as well extended family and good friends too. There are many people being hurt by this industry not just random single “deadbeat” dads. But men who feel if they are a father that they want to be a father!
I wonder if it is the Intent for the Utah adoption Industry to never let the children know of their natural parents or they don’t realise what any adult child would think finding out what happened to them?
I encourage anybody reading this to seek the numerous stories of adoptee’s who feel lost, who feel identity crisis or who were abused and even sometimes murdered by adoptive parents.
Adopted children are not always happy with their situation. If a man actually cares about a child it doesn’t make right to treat him like the other numerous men out there who would rather run from responsibility and only acknowledge a child because the mother makes them pay child support!
How would you feel adopting a child that eventually finds out that their father wanted them and they payed a fraud practicing adoption services to cheat him?
I think the Adult adoptee’s of these adoption’s will be outraged at all the institutions involved!
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1. Amyadoptee | January 17th, 2008 at 7:21 pm
I know that I am. I am an adult adoptee who found out 40 years later that her father wanted her. Of course back in the sixties, fathers were not allowed to raise their children. Most mothers in that era were forced to relinquish. The adoption agencies kept the adoptive parents separate from the natural parents. It sets me on fire. My own adoptive mother can’t even get copies of the adoption finalization. She doesn’t remember signing anything.
2. William F Draper | January 19th, 2008 at 12:45 am
I lost my children through an illegal adoption back in 1991; Lafayette,IN. The children’s mother lost the children to the babysitter she was using up there. I was still living in Florida where we were living when she left. 4 1/2 years battle with the welfare dept and never more than a 4 hr visit. The Babysitter (church of christ- these people are very activley adopting children ) and her Airforce Commander husband saw to it that my new wife and I never even got a weekend visit. The illegalities are blatant,, if any wished to review. My second wife was an eyewitness to it all.
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